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March 2026 | Lansing Chapter
For Elaine Crosby, success once meant competing on some of the world’s most recognizable golf courses. A two-time winner on the LPGA Tour, Crosby spent sixteen years traveling the professional circuit, building a career defined by discipline and perseverance. Yet looking back today from her home in Jackson, she sees that her life’s most meaningful victories did not take place on the fairway but in the quiet, steady work of faith, service, and community.
A graduate of the University of Michigan, Crosby’s journey has taken her from professional sports to leadership in Catholic education and parish life. She previously served as president of Lumen Christi Catholic School and remains deeply involved in her parish and the Legatus Lansing Chapter. Her story reflects a truth familiar to many leaders of faith: God often reveals our deepest calling only after the first chapter of our lives has already been written.
Crosby grew up Catholic and remained connected to the Church during her early years, but the realities of life on tour made consistent practice difficult. Professional golf demanded nearly constant travel, often thirty weeks a year, leaving little stability for Sunday Mass or parish life.
During those years, faith was present but not central. Tournaments filled the calendar, and competition required intense focus. Only later did Crosby begin to recognize how much deeper her spiritual life could have been during that time.
“Looking back now,” she says, “I wish I had put my faith more at the center. When the times weren’t going well, it would have helped me put things in perspective.”
In professional sports today, public expressions of faith are common. Athletes regularly speak about gratitude to God or the role of faith in their success. Crosby notes that during the 1980s and 1990s, that culture simply did not exist.
“You didn’t hear people talk about their faith very much,” she says. “Now athletes thank God for their gifts. Back then, you thanked your sponsors and moved on.”
That reflection, she admits, is one of the quiet lessons that came with age and perspective.
After retiring from professional golf, Crosby returned home to Michigan and began attending Mass regularly at her parish. What began as a simple introduction to the pastor soon opened an unexpected door.
The next day the phone rang. The pastor invited her to join the parish finance council, and that small step quickly led to deeper involvement in parish life. A stewardship conference she attended with parish leaders became a turning point.
“It changed everything,” Crosby says. “It made me think about the gifts God had given me and how I could use them to help other people.”
Soon afterward, an opportunity arose with the local Catholic schools. Crosby applied for a development role with the Jackson Area Catholic Schools, drawing on the organizational skills she had gained during her years in professional golf. What began as a fundraising position gradually evolved into something much larger.
Without expecting it, Crosby was asked to step into leadership at Lumen Christi Catholic School. Eventually she was formally installed as president.
“One day I got a call from the bishop’s office saying he was coming the next week to install me,” she says with a laugh. “And I thought, ‘Really? We didn’t even interview anyone!’”
For the next five years, Crosby led the school through strategic planning and growth while fostering a culture rooted firmly in Catholic identity. “As president, you have to live the faith every day,” she explains. “The staff has to see that it matters to you.” That witness extended beyond students and teachers. Crosby helped create opportunities for staff prayer, retreats, and community life, recognizing that leadership in a Catholic institution must always begin with personal example.
Today Crosby has retired from school leadership but remains active in both parish and community life. She organizes social and service programs for older parishioners at her church, helping build stronger connections among members of the community.
Her efforts range from pilgrimages to historic churches to service projects with local outreach programs. The goal, she says, is simple: to help people encounter one another and grow in faith together.
Crosby has also found a meaningful community within the Legatus Lansing Chapter, where she serves as a local officer. “It’s the camaraderie,” she says. “You pray the rosary together, you go to Mass together, and you’re surrounded by people who are trying to live their faith in their work and their lives.”
For Crosby, that shared journey is what makes Legatus unique. Members arrive with different backgrounds and levels of spiritual formation, but the community encourages growth and accountability. “Not everyone comes in with the same depth of faith,” she says. “But Legatus helps bring people along on that journey.”
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Looking back over the arc of her life, Crosby sees the hand of God guiding each step, often through the people placed along her path.
“God works through other people,” she reflects. “If you surround yourself with the right people, you start to see His direction more clearly.”
Her story is a reminder that vocation often unfolds gradually. Success may begin in one arena, but faithfulness ultimately calls us toward something deeper: a life spent using our gifts for the good of others and the glory of God.
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